Discover four tools to confronting those weaknesses:
Seek feedback from others
It pays to get feedback on your performance from those you work with, both internally and externally. You are not always the fairest judge of your own character, and will find that other people have some valuable suggestions.
Be conscious of others’ intentions throughout this process. When asked for feedback, few people will be openly toxic, but remember that not everyone will be motivated to help you succeed either. First approach bosses, mentors and colleagues that you consider to be the most insightful and honest.
Be honest with yourself
Be brave and honest enough to make a realistic self-assessment. All of us have areas in which we are less strong in than others. It’s our willingness to accept this fact and work towards accommodating our weaknesses that makes some of us more successful than others.
For instance, one of my weaknesses is my tendency to take on more work than is realistic. I like to think at the beginning of the week that I can plough through a whole multitude of tasks, however there are always new projects popping up which complicate my schedule. I am aware of this weakness and have made steps to confront it by developing a much more straightforward system to manage my workload.
Engage others to help you change. Arrange an open and honest meeting with your boss to discuss your weaknesses. You will more than likely find your boss is eager to help facilitate your professional development ambitions. Being honest about your weaknesses also makes you more approachable and easier to work with.
So, try constructing a list of your weaknesses and put together a realistic and tangible action plan to help you confront them.
It’s not going to be easy
Change can of course be an uncomfortable and sometimes unsettling, and sometimes you might experience a setback, but don’t lose sight of the final goal – personal development and progression.
Many successful people have admitted that their road to success was paved with failure. Prepare yourself to encounter adversity on your path to self-improvement.
One small victory at a time
Don’t make the mistake of identifying several weaknesses and then trying to deal with them all at once. This is a sure way to overwhelm yourself and to become confused about what it is you’re trying to achieve. Focus instead on one small improvement at a time.
Be specific about the exact improvements you are seeking. This allows you to both plan for and then assess your progress accurately. When assessing your progress, find ways to reward small steps of improvement. Let your improvements so far be your motivation to improve further still.
A final thought
We all have weaknesses, but only some of us choose to try and improve on them. Recognizing these shortcomings and, where possible, doing something about them is what separates the truly successful from the rest.